{"id":1041,"date":"2006-05-20T14:12:01","date_gmt":"2006-05-20T19:12:01","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/mofoxtrot.com\/viewpoint\/?p=1041"},"modified":"2010-10-09T14:12:26","modified_gmt":"2010-10-09T19:12:26","slug":"sue-how-do-you-deal-with-susans-fear","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/mofoxtrot.com\/viewpoint\/sue-how-do-you-deal-with-susans-fear\/","title":{"rendered":"Sue &#8211; How Do You Deal with Susan&#8217;s Fear?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>It&#8217;s become apparent. It&#8217;s out there for the world to notice. <a href=\"http:\/\/www.forthehorse.org\">Jenny<\/a> noticed today and that&#8217;s a sad thing.<\/p>\n<p>Yes, no longer can we talk about Sue&#8217;s fear. Her fear has abated to flinching and perhaps a few quick steps&#8230;or a head up.<\/p>\n<p>Yes, we have to talk about Susan&#8217;s fear. It&#8217;s now greater than Sue&#8217;s fear. My latest fear came from being bucked off last year and breaking my collar bone. Boy Howdy did that hurt!<\/p>\n<p>My brain flashes back to a horse bunching up and then bucking. My left brain knows that Sue is not going to swell up and buck. My right brain is not at all convinced.<\/p>\n<p>Sue had a pretty good time in the arena today. She was so relaxed that she took a snooze while Jenny was talking to us. Of course I was on high alert for horses that might be coming to close to us and scaring Sue (and me!).<\/p>\n<p>In the Level 1 Advancing Clinic, Sue and I got bunched in the middle of 2 or 3 horses. We try not to let that happen, but in an Advancing clinic, horses go everywhere.<\/p>\n<p>Sue&#8217;s head came up and she started backing. Jenny told me that I pulled back on her too&#8230;a\u00a0big no no. All I&#8217;m supposed to do is to get her head pointed at the source of her fear. Jenny told me to pretend to relax&#8230;fake it until I make it.<br \/>\nsigh<\/p>\n<p>I also did a big No No again today. I told someone in the clinic not to get to close behind me. I&#8217;m supposed to be able to adjust to that myself&#8230;not tell another clinic person with a three year old mustang, not to get close to me.<\/p>\n<p>So, I&#8217;ve had a big talk with myself tonight. Sue is fun to ride. She speeds up when startled, but calms right down. In fact today, I was pretty relaxed at one point when riding her. Something from behind made her nervous and she sped up for about 5 steps and then calmed right down again. My spook mechinism didn&#8217;t even have time to react and it was all over! KEWL!<\/p>\n<p>That&#8217;s another thing that I like about<a href=\"http:\/\/www.parelli.com\"> Parelli Natural Horsemanship <\/a>and me. I like fighting with my fear and winning. There&#8217;s nothing better than to conquor pure fear. It&#8217;s a rush!<\/p>\n<p>My next rides on Sue are just going to be joyous events. I have given myself a directive to &#8220;Let the FEAR GO!&#8221;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>It&#8217;s become apparent. It&#8217;s out there for the world to notice. Jenny noticed today and that&#8217;s a sad thing. Yes, no longer can we talk about Sue&#8217;s fear. Her fear has abated to flinching and perhaps a few quick steps&#8230;or a head up. Yes, we have to talk about Susan&#8217;s fear. It&#8217;s now greater than Sue&#8217;s fear. My latest fear came from being bucked off last year and breaking my collar bone. Boy Howdy did that hurt! My brain flashes back to a horse bunching up and then bucking. 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